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The most valuable weapon you can have against drugs is a good relationship
with your child.
And assuming they're taking drugs is NOT a good way of
developing that relationship.
If only I’d done something sooner!
If your child believes you have faith in them, they're more likely to
share details of their social lives. You’ll have a better idea of
what they get up to , and they’ll be more likely to see your viewpoint,
and appreciate your interest in their well-being.
What sorts of things should I be aware of?
Spoons discoloured from heating, tin foil, pill boxes, tiny bits of clear
food wrap, sugar lumps, syringes or needles, cigarette papers, lighters,
cigarette ends made of card, butane gas canisters, shredded cigarettes,
pipes, small stickers or transfers, small bottles.
Money going missing; your child selling CDs and computer games, and you
don’t know where the money's going.
These could be signs of drug use (but they might not be).
So what do I do if I find these things?
Raise the issue
Make it clear that it's happening, without laying blame
Encourage them to talk (see Getting
on their wavelength)
Learn more about the risks – Understanding
the risks
Find out how to improve communications with your children – Getting
on their wavelength
Find out more about the drugs themselves – What
are these drugs? Basic info
Read more about the effects of drugs – What
are these drugs? The detail
Find out how you can get help – Who
else can help?
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